.....That's why on many occasions, while a woman is trying to be real, find connection and validate herself with him, the rise in no calls/ no shows become unexplainable after sex. It's a determine factor for his physical enjoyment and not his heart.
You want to know what it is that gets a man closer to you before sex? All things that has to do with appreciation, his family, his money (being smart with it) and acknowledgement..
Talk to a man who have some sense and watch how he is careful with his words, with the Hope's that you are listening...