Romantic love, I think, is one of the things most of us are problematic about. May it be a recent break-up, not being able to move on, unrequited love, or actually finding love. We are all at lost in the idea of love that sometimes it also becomes an emotional addiction in a sense that we perceive love as a necessity like food that we need in our daily lives.
Hold your coffee. Listen, take a rest.
If you are single now and in hope for a new love, think about yourself first. Think about your feelings. Are you ready to love? Are you really capable to love with your current state? Do you think you love him/her because of “love” or because of “need”; need to be with someone? Do you think having him/her by your side will make you whole, why, are you broken in first place that you need some fillers to complete you?
This may sound cliché but this is the hard truth. You need to be at peace with yourself before you find someone to love. Love not because you are lonely, not because he makes you happy, but because you know this is gonna be worthy and your mind is free from any doubts.
Love is not something that just happens overnight. Love is a responsibility. Love comes with utmost understanding and patience. Love is supposed to grow with maturity.
How can you love someone if you’re not at peace with yourself? How can you love someone if you’re broken yourself?
Focus on finding your peace of mind, developing yourself, and claiming your goals.
The right love comes along with the right person and the right moment. In the long term, what you’ll need for love to stay isn’t the butterflies but the feeling of peace that you’ll have with the one you love.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! ❤️