Here’s some Sunday inspo for you 👀
“You will be too much for some people. Those aren’t your people.” God I wish someone had told me this earlier in my life. It sure would have saved me time and energy on trying to be “less” for whoever I was trying to belong with.
The truth is, you don’t have to be everyone’s cup of tea. Whether you’re “too loud”, “too talkative”, “too honest”, “too authentic”, “too involved”, too, too, too... you will find your tribe of people who you aren’t TOO anything for.
Start by saying “no” to things that don’t serve you. Stay true to the things that fuel you and align with your values, stay true to who you are on every level. And if someone decides that you’re “too much” for them, let them walk out of your life. Don’t be “less” to keep someone in your life. That’s on them, not you.
If you feel like you need to change in order to fit in, those aren’t your people, move on. If you’re feeling like you’ll never find your tribe, I’m here to tell you that they’re out there. The people who share your values, ambitions, unapologetic authenticity or appreciate your charisma, your loud laugh or your bad ass attitude, THEY ARE OUT THERE and they’re looking for you too.